When the kids where little I always said the Ann was the prettiest, Matt was the cutest, and Evan was the sweetest! I remember, for example, when he was a small boy on a grade school basketball team, they were playing in a large school gym filled with parents and there was no shortage advise from them, including me, to the players on the floor-and I mean loud screaming. At a timeout, Evan came over to me and said "Dad-this just a game." I immediately knew what he meant,and quieted down like a reasonable adult. If my spelling, etc, is off is right now my hand are shaking and feel like this whole thing is not really happening.